Some
men are naturally shy while some don’t even know how to start. The
thing is, wooing a girl in public is simple and a lot easier than when
she’s alone. Here, we have put this down to help you be a man, Lol. Read
carefully to the end.
1. Get out in public.You have to put yourself out there to meet girls. Only approach a female aged 12-16 in a public setting. If you approach a girl in a dhttp://go.ad2up.com/afu.php?id=1082601imly-lit alleyway, an abandoned parking lots, or a deserted subway station you will not be successful. Don’t do it. Go to a coffee shop. People come in and out all day. You’ll be likely to see more opportunities for conversation. Someplace that concerns an interest you have, like a comic book store, a book store, or a Renaissance Fair. You are more likely to meet a girl that you are compatible with. Bars and clubs. Remember to follow the steps below when approaching a girl in a bar. Not every girl is looking to be approached. Pay attention to body language. It is also harder to carry on a conversation in this environment. Ensure the girl is old enough to be in the bar or club to save a potentially embarrassing situation.
2.Make Eye Contact:If you see a girl you’d like to meet, try to make eye contact before talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact. If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign that she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl might signal that she’s interested.[1] Why are eyes so powerful? Science seems to suggest that eye contact activates our brain’s reward center, the ventral striatum.[2] What does this mean? Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at you is cause for celebration! Smile. A friendly smile is a great way to show someone that you’re interested in them. If she returns the smile, that’s a good sign that she might be interested. Once you’ve exchanged a few glances and a smile, check her body language. This will give you a better idea if she’s actually interested.
1. Get out in public.You have to put yourself out there to meet girls. Only approach a female aged 12-16 in a public setting. If you approach a girl in a dhttp://go.ad2up.com/afu.php?id=1082601imly-lit alleyway, an abandoned parking lots, or a deserted subway station you will not be successful. Don’t do it. Go to a coffee shop. People come in and out all day. You’ll be likely to see more opportunities for conversation. Someplace that concerns an interest you have, like a comic book store, a book store, or a Renaissance Fair. You are more likely to meet a girl that you are compatible with. Bars and clubs. Remember to follow the steps below when approaching a girl in a bar. Not every girl is looking to be approached. Pay attention to body language. It is also harder to carry on a conversation in this environment. Ensure the girl is old enough to be in the bar or club to save a potentially embarrassing situation.
2.Make Eye Contact:If you see a girl you’d like to meet, try to make eye contact before talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact. If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign that she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl might signal that she’s interested.[1] Why are eyes so powerful? Science seems to suggest that eye contact activates our brain’s reward center, the ventral striatum.[2] What does this mean? Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at you is cause for celebration! Smile. A friendly smile is a great way to show someone that you’re interested in them. If she returns the smile, that’s a good sign that she might be interested. Once you’ve exchanged a few glances and a smile, check her body language. This will give you a better idea if she’s actually interested.
3.
Check Body Language:While reading another person’s body language, male
or female, is NOT an exact science, there are definitely a few behaviors
to look for that will signal that the person is not interested in
engaging in conversation. Respect the girl’s right to be left alone.
Is she facing away from you? Are her arms crossed? Is she listening to
music, or reading a book? Is she frowning? Is she specifically looking
away from you? While not perfect indicators, expressions and body
language like this probably means leave her alone.[3] Body language
is not everything. Girls are taught from childhood that they must be
pleasant no matter what, apparently. If you are going to approach her,
pay attention to how she reacts and what she says.[4]4. Approach the
girl you are interested in.Start with a simple ice-breaker. Perhaps you
are reading the same book, or you noticed she was wearing a shirt that
has a band you like. Perhaps the bus is late and you can commiserate
with her. If she doesn’t seem interested in talking, leave her alone.
There are numerous ways to tell: not making eye contact, monosyllabic
answers, looking around for some way out of the conversation. If she
is interested she will make that clear: eye contact, smiling, sometimes
leaning closer. Once you’ve approached and established that she’s
interested, proceed to having a conversation.5. Have a conversation.This
might flow naturally out of your ice-breaker comment, but if not there
are several ways to have a conversation. Ask her if she made her
earrings/dress/other cool item. You could even say something like “I
couldn’t help but noticing how your dress matches your eyes. It’s a
great color.” It lets her know that you think she’s attractive without
dwelling on her looks. Like anyone else, girls like to be appreciated
for more than just their appearance. If you’re in a place like a
bookstore or comic book store, ask her what her favorite book is. Be
sure to listen when she speaks. You’ll find out more about her, have
opportunities to further the conversation, and show her that you are
interested in her as a person.
6.
Make future plans.If she seems interested and you are still interested,
try to make plans for a future meet-up. Give her your phone number
or email address. This way she feels in control of the situation. You’ll
know for certain that she’s interested if she follows up. Ask for
her phone number or email address. If she says no, leave it. She doesn’t
owe you anything further, even if she did enjoy your company. Ask
her on an instant date. Ask her if she wants to grab coffee somewhere.
Always choose a public place for an instant date; you want her to feel
comfortable. Have a coffee shop in mind if you do ask, or ask her if she
knows a good place. That way she will feel in control of the
situation.7. Be respectful.This is the absolute most important part of
approaching a girl in public, or in any situation. If she is not
interested back off. Remember, different girls have different tastes
in guys, or no taste in guys. One girl might just feel that you’re not
her type. However, there might be another girl out there who will think
you’re awesome.
