I honestly
do not know how women deal with cheating so reasonably and gracefully.
IF a survey was to be carried out to find how many men would leave their
lovers after being cheated, it’s almost certainly safe to conclude that
the 99 percent would immediately end things, even if children and joint
finances were involved.
Some can
even go ballistic and go to extremes, many a time we hear of women being
physically abused or even killed by their spouses for cheating, after
which the men will turn the guns on themselves.
On the
contrary, most women will forgive and forgive and forgive again, even
when the cheating comes with baggage like extra children.
Below are the reasons why we men, find it very difficult to process being cheated!
1-We cheat
the most but women cheat the best, we dish it out but we can’t take it
back, we act like it’s of the world after being cheated on.
2-If the
woman cheats, it can be interpreted like the man has serious shortfalls
in the bedroom department that she had to go lool for satisfaction
elsewhere. A man can’t handle these kind of blows. Its devastating, his
ego is deflated.
3-Also,
it’s just embarrassing for a man to tell his friends he has been
cheated. Many men consider it the highest level of disrespect and they
will never recover from such a blow. The common feeling is that if the
man forgives the woman,it’s as a sign of weakness, especially before his
crew. This is a catch 22 situation, you want to forgive your partner,
but you know the moment your boys find out, you become the laughing
stock.
4-We cheat
for sex, just to F**ck but when a woman cheats, she cheats for Love and
affection, she cheats with a guy who can potentially replace you.
5-A woman
will hurt for days or even months when her man cheats, but the moment
she starts talking to her girlfriends about the problem, it relieves her
pain. She has a support group. The man, however, can’t tell his
brethren and in deciding to keep his feelings inside, carries around his
pain for years, which may lead to continuous fights between the couple,
or even death.
