We
live in a society where the man is expected to always make the first
moves. He’s expected to be the first to chat a lady up, ask her out on a
date, propose marriage to her and even initiate s*x. Hence, this makes
it a lot more difficult for a woman to get a man to marry her than it is
for a man to get a woman to marry.
I’m
a man, so I have written from a man’s perspective on the subject. The
following should give you the needed insight that will naturally elude
most women. Now back to the original question; how can I get a man to
marry me? The answer is simple; be the most qualified woman for him to
marry. The process of being that kind of a woman is not as simple. The
following tips will guide you…
1.
Smile… a lot. Just smile. There is nothing as attractive as a woman’s
face beaming with radiant smiles. It is alluring. Most men find it
extremely charming. It also conveys a confident lovable personality.
Laugh to his jokes, including the not-so-funny ones. You can at least
laugh at him without making things look awkward. It makes you look real
and relatable. When you go for an interview and you see your
interviewers smiling, how do you feel? Positive. Optimistic. Confident.
Right? That is the same way he feels when you smile to him. A smile is
also a subtle but unnoticeable way to say “It’s okay to ask me out. I
don’t bite.” Most guy will get the message without even knowing it was a
message.
2.
Show some green light. Many men find it difficult to take things to the
next level with women for different reasons. Some are scared to lose
her friendship if she doesn’t see them in that way. Some guys are just
scared of commitment. Others are simply awfully timid. They lose their
composure and even their voice at the most crucial moment. The thought
of it alone can paralyze the tongue of some guys. So you might have to
help such a guy. Not by doing his job for him, but by making it easy for
him. A reassuring smile will give him hints that the feeling is mutual;
this will encourage him to face his demon and take things to the next
level with you.
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Be friendly and easy to get along with. This is not about showing green
lights. It’s about being a pleasant person. Men naturally flock around
pleasant ladies. It is bliss to be able to be himself around her without
her making him feel like an endangered species. Be kind. Smile a lot.
There is no better way to make people feel welcomed and good about
themselves. Don’t judge people. Never be caught fighting someone, it is
very unattractive and even scary to see a lady do that. Show genuine
interest in others by listening when they talk and seeking to understand
them. We are in a noisy world. Everyone wants to talk, but no one wants
to listen. Be the listening ear. Be the one he always wants to talk to
because he knows you will listen and not judge him. Trust me, when it
comes to spending the rest of his life with someone, your chances are
very high because he his certain he would be getting married to his
friend.
4.
Be a ‘wife material’. Who is a wife material? Simply put, it’s someone
who has qualities of a good wife. Now the question is; what qualities do
men seek for in their women? The answer may differ from man to man, but
some things are basic to most men. Men want a great cook like their
mothers. Someone who can satisfy them sexually and emotionally. Someone
they can look forward to going home to after another hectic day. They
want a God-fearing woman who would be a great mother to their children
and can nurture a home. Being supportive, kind, clean, good-looking,
would all be added advantages.
5.
Be yourself. This is the most important of all. Never lose yourself in
the name of being a “wife material”. Be authentic in whatever you do.
Love yourself if you want others to love you and find you desirable. You
cannot give what you don’t have. Never lose you originality. Be
confident. Be real. This is by far one of the most attractive features
most men look forward to in the woman of their dreams. Carry yourself
well. Never lose your poise. How To Be Yourself
You
cannot be perfect. Any guy who wants a perfect woman for a wife is
delusional. You deserve better than such a man. But you can be better
than you are right now. Be on a consistent quest to improve on your
strengths and learn to control your weaknesses. Hence, the focus really
is on you, not on the guys. Because better you are, the better your
chances of attracting a serious man into your life since everyone wants a
great woman as a wife anyway. You want to get a man to marry you? There
you go, be an amazing woman.
